How to separating work and personal life?
1.Limit your personal calls while at work
2.Limit checking your personal email while at work
3.Manage your time more effectively and make sure you
make time for yourself
4.Stay organized
5.Delegate tasks
6.Resist the urge to check work, E-mail & voice mail outside of office
7.Leave your workload at the office
Friday, August 28, 2009
How to manage ANGER?
I am decided to drop some words about anger management, I hope that you can visualize and healthy living without faster aging. Anger is a normal and usually a healthy human emotion. However, it could also turn out to be destructive when it gets out of control. It could also lead to problems at work, in your personal relationships and in the overall quality of life. Uncontrolled anger makes you feel as though you’re at the mercy of the unpredictable and powerful emotion.
What is Anger?
The Nature of Anger
Anger is an emotional state that varies in the intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage. Similar to other emotions, it is accompanied by physiological and biological changes. Your heart rate and blood pressure increases when you get angry.
Both external and internal events could cause anger. You could be angry at a specific person or your anger could be caused by worrying about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic events can also trigger angry feelings.
The Expression Anger
The natural way to express anger is to respond aggressively. Anger is a natural and an adaptive response to threats; it inspires powerful, very often aggressive feelings and behaviours, which allow us to fight and to defend ourselves when we are attacked. Henceforth, a certain amount of anger is therefore necessary to our survival.
On the contrary, we can’t physically lash out at every person or object that irritates or annoys us. There are laws, social norms, and the common sense that place limits on how our anger can take us.
People use a variety of both conscious and unconscious processes to deal with their angry feelings. There three main approaches are:
Expressing
Expressing your angry feelings in an assertive manner is the healthiest way. To achieve this, you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and how to get them met, without hurting others. Being assertive literally means being respectful of yourself and other.
Suppressing
Anger can be suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to suppress your anger and convert it into more constructive behaviour.
Calming
Finally, you can clam down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behaviour, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feeling subside.
When none of these three techniques work, that’s when someone or something is going to get hurt.
Anger Management
The objective of anger management is to reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes. You can’t avoid the things or people that enrage you, nor can you change them within a short period, but you can learn to effectively control your reactions.
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Dear All Muslim Brother And Sister
Dear All Muslim Brother And Sister
He deserves Paradise who makes his companions laugh - Quran
Fear God and he will give you knowledge- Quran
O you who believe! Seek assistance through patience and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient- Quran
God is with those who Preserve- Quran
A good word is like a good tree whose root is firmly fixed and whose top is in the sky- Quran
Believers, jews, sabaeans or Christians-whoever believe in god and the last day and does what is right-shall have nothing to fear or regret- Quran
Any mankind is naught but a single- Quran
May your blessings be too many to count... And your worries too few to matter May your days be filled with Sunshine... And your nights in comfort May you never go hungry... And be able to share your bounty May God bless and protect you... And strengthen your faith May God Bless the people of Palestine... And answer their prayers May the next Eid we celebrate be free from oppression, hatred, persecution, and fear... Next Year in a FREE Jerusalem!!! My wishes to all for a blessed Ramadan and please remember those who go hungry all year long…
May This Ramadan be as bright as ever.
May this Ramadan bring joy, health and wealth to you.
May the festival of lights brighten up you
and your near and dear ones lives.
May this Ramadan bring in u the most
brightest and choicest happiness and
love you have ever Wished for.
May this Ramadan bring you the
utmost in peace and prosperity.
May lights triumph over darkness.
May peace transcend the earth.
May the spirit of light illuminate the world.
May the light that we celebrate at Ramadan
show us the way and lead us together on the
path of peace and social harmony
Wish you a very happy Ramadan Mubarak
And A Happy New Year With A Plenty
Of Peace And Prosperity
Ramadan Mubarak to all.
Ahmad Gora Ashrif
Obama Wishes 'Ramadan Kareem' to Muslims
President Obama released videotaped Ramadan wishes Friday, sending "best wishes to Muslims in America and around the world" and wishing them "Ramadan Kareem" on "behalf of the American people, including Muslim communities in all 50 states."
The remainder of his remarks in the five-minute YouTube clip seemingly provide a tutorial on the meaning of Ramadan for non-Muslim viewers tuning in to watch, and outline the basics of his views on issues of importance to the Muslim world. The president makes sure to mention "my own Christian faith" and the values shared by Islam and Christianity when it comes to service, even as he speaks of Muslim ceremonies he knows well.
He also recapitulates his basic foreign policy positions involving Muslim nations. "We're also committed to keeping our responsibility to build a world that is more peaceful and secure. That's why we're responsibly ending the war in Iraq," he says, adding, "That is why we strongly and actively support a two-state solution that recognizes the rights of Israelis and Palestinians to live in peace and security. That is also why America will always stand for the universal rights of all people."
"I want to reiterate my commitment to a new beginning between America and Muslims around the world," he continues, emphasizing his Cairo message of seeking common ground and that "an important part of this is listening."
"In last two months, American embassies around the world have reached out not just to governments but directly to people in Muslim-majority countries," he says, adding, "We have listened, and, like you, we are focused on pursuing concrete actions that will make a difference over time. ... These consultations are helping us implement the partnerships that I called for in Cairo."
The president lays out collaborations with international health authorities to eradicate polio in Muslim-majority nations, and to mitigate H1N1 flu transmission risks during the Hajj, the annual pilgrimage to Mecca by devout Muslims which this year will fall at the end of November.
"May God's peace be upon you," he concludes.
Monday, August 24, 2009
RFS has expanded its partnership with our C&C Universal Engineering Sdn Bhd to establish a bonded warehousing facility in Port Klang.
RFS boosts Asia Pacific supply chain with extensive warehousing facility in Port Klang
On the occasion of the CommunicAsia ICT conference & exhibition being held at the Singapore Expo, on 16-19 June 2009, wireless infrastructure specialist RFS (Radio Frequency Systems) has expanded its partnership with Malaysian distributor C&C Universal Engineering Sdn Bhd to establish a bonded warehousing facility in Port Klang.
Served by excellent road, sea and air links, the Port Klang facility will enter full commercial operation in mid-2009 and provide a central logistical hub from which RFS is ideally positioned to service its telecom customers throughout the Asia Pacific region.
The facility will be run jointly by RFS and C&C, with the latter responsible for management of the warehouse, including site kitting and reconciling of stock and deliveries, and with RFS overseeing the distribution of goods in and out of the facility, forecasting supply requirements, and subsequent shipping to countries outside of Malaysia.
RFS initially signed C&C Universal Engineering as a local distributor at the beginning of 2008, to boost its quality component logistics channel in Malaysia. With four main cellular networks operating a mix of GSM 900/1800 and 3G 2100 MHz services, Malaysia is one of the most well-served, cellular-enabled countries in Asia.
RFS has been supplying its cellular and allied wireless systems into the country for several years, and has firmly established itself as a quality supplier, with the added attraction of price-competitiveness and timely deliveries.
This positioning has been reinforced thanks to this and the partnership with C&C. C&C is now undertaking a bonded warehouse management function to ensure that RFS is optimally-positioned to meet the burgeoning demand for cellular communications infrastructure, as mobile network operators across Asia Pacific begin the transition from 2G to 3G and beyond.
"The expansion of our partnership with C&C Universal Engineering is a significant development in our supply chain and logistics capabilities and part of our concerted strategy to ensure we are best placed to serve the demands of our customers in Asia Pacific," says Tim Conboy, Vice President, Sales and Marketing, APAC South at RFS.
"Port Klang provides a substantial facility that is cost-efficient and geographically well-positioned for servicing the entire region. The warehouse will stock a range of RFS' wireless infrastructure, RF transmission distribution and radio link network solutions, and enable us to offer much shorter lead times - typically dispatching between two to three days."
Building on C&C's high quality in-country rapid response logistics and distribution, the new bonded warehousing facility will also assist RFS in supporting onwards fulfilment to other countries in the region, providing a ‘win-win' situation for all members of the cellular systems value chain.
In partnership with C&C, RFS has also been delivering skills training and knowledge transfer locally in Malaysia to meet demand for premium quality support, which is rapidly becoming the determining factor as far as carrier customer satisfaction levels are concerned.
As well as being responsible for on-site management of RFS' sophisticated range of cellular infrastructure solutions, C&C will undertake site-kitting to ensure that products are packaged and shipped according to RFS' customer requirements.
"The Port Klang warehouse will be carefully managed to suit customer needs in respect of their actual product types. There will be a substantial quantity of product stocked, including a significant amount of RF cabling, which needs a lot of space and demands expertise from a handling perspective," continues Conboy.
"The addition of local in-country skills training and our long-term approach to knowledge transfer, combined with C&C's first-rate distribution and support in Malaysia, means that RFS not only has a powerful presence locally, but is now able to offer the highest possible levels of support, deliver shorter lead times, and prepare off-the-shelf deliveries to mobile network operators throughout the entire Asia Pacific region."
RFS' specialists on hand at the CommunicAsia ICT conference & exhibition include Martyn Kemel (President, Broadcast and Defense Systems), Mick Bennett (Global Product Manager Broadcast and Defense), Tim Conboy (Vice President, Sales and Marketing for APAC South and Eric Mariette, VP Global Strategy and Marketing.
Meet them on the RFS stand (Hall 5, Stand 5E2-01)
[Image captions]: The extensive warehousing facility, jointly run by RFS and C&C in Port Klang (Malaysia)
Trademarks: Radio Frequency Systems® and RFS® are registered trademarks of Radio Frequency Systems. All other trademarks are the property of their respective owners.
Trademarks: Radio Frequency Systems® and RFS® are registered trademarks of Radio Frequency Systems. All other trademarks are the property of their respective owners.
About RFS
Radio Frequency Systems (RFS) is a global designer and manufacturer of cable, antenna and tower systems, plus active and passive RF conditioning modules, providing total-package solutions for wireless infrastructure.
RFS serves OEMs, distributors, system integrators, operators and installers in the broadcast, wireless communications, land-mobile and microwave market sectors. As an ISO compliant organization with manufacturing and customer service facilities that span the globe, RFS offers cutting-edge engineering capabilities, superior field support and innovative product design. RFS is a leader in wireless infrastructure.
About C&C
C&C Universal Engineering is one of the leading suppliers of cutting edge technology in the Asia-Pacific telecoms industry. The company is teaming up with a number of partners to move advanced mobile technology and deliver tomorrow's communications requirements today.
C&C offers its clients an end-to-end range of cost-effective solutions and a complete range of telecommunications components and tools, as well as the engineering services required to make the distributor a one-stop source for all carrier's communications needs.
Saturday, August 22, 2009
The 12 Most Powerful Super Foods
we need to choose for right fruits to have. These fruits can really effort for our Healthy Living.
The 12 Most Powerful Super Foods for you.....
Why Are They So Super?
Ask five nutritionists to rate the 12 most powerful foods and you'll get five different lists, but many of the selections will overlap. Why? Because every food provides something different: Some are a rich source of protein or fiber but void of many vitamins and minerals, while others contain disease-fighting phytonutrients, vitamins and minerals, but no protein. The trick, claim experts, is to get a variety of the best foods. The following 12 power foods are a good place to start.
Avocados
Sure they're high in fat, but avocados contain healthful monounsaturated fat, which has been linked to a reduced risk of cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. 'Avocados aid in blood and tissue regeneration, stabilize blood sugar, and are excellent for heart disorders,' says Ed Bauman, Ph.D., director of Bauman College . They're loaded with fiber (11 to 17 grams per fruit) and are a good source of lutein, an antioxidant linked to eye and skin health.
Apples
'An apple a day really does keep the doctor away,' says Jonny Bowden, Ph.D., C.N.S., author of The 150 Healthiest Foods on Earth. Apples are loaded with the powerful antioxidants quercetin and catechin, which protect cells from damage - that means a reduced risk of cancer and cardiovascular disease, especially if you eat the skin. Research shows that the apple peel contains five times more polyphenols than the flesh. Apples and their skins pack a lot of fiber too (about twice that of other common fruits, including peaches, grapes, and grapefruit), which may help fight the battle of the bulge.
Blueberries
Antiaging superstars, blueberries are loaded with antioxidants, especially anthocyanins, which have been shown to improve vision and brain function. Studies show that eating blueberries slows impairments in motor coordination and memory that accompany aging. These little berries also reduce inflammation, which is inextricably linked with virtually every chronic disease from Alzheimer's and Parkinson's, to diabetes and heart disease. Other studies show that blueberries have much greater anticancer activity than other fruits
Cabbage
In the vegetable world, the Brassica genus reigns supreme, and the cabbage is the most impressive of the lot. Brassica vegetables (including broccoli, bok choy) contain compounds called indoles, which have been shown to reduce the risk of cancer dramatically. 'Eating cabbage more than once a week cut men's colon cancer odds by 66 percent,' says Bauman. 'Cabbage also stimulates the immune system, kills bacteria and viruses, and is a good blood purifier.' If you go for the red variety, you'll also get a healthy dose of anthocyanins (the same pigment molecules that make blueberries blue), another powerful antioxidant with an anticancer punch.
Fish and Fish Oil
Eating fish helps cut the risk of heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer's, stroke, diabetes, and arthritis. The fatty varieties may also help alleviate depression. The American Heart Association recommends that adults eat at least two fish meals per week, especially wild salmon, herring, and sardines, because those varieties provide the most heart-healthy omega 3s. Avoid mercury-containing varieties like shark, swordfish, king mackerel, tilefish, and albacore tuna, says Roberta Anding, M.S., R.D., national spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. (Chunk light tuna is okay.)
Garlic
Research shows that garlic lowers total cholesterol and triglyceride (blood fat) levels, helping prevent clogged arteries. 'Two to three cloves a day cut the odds of subsequent heart attacks in half for heart disease patients,' says Bauman. 'Garlic also tops the National Cancer Institute's list of potential cancer-preventive foods.' Whole baked garlic helps detoxify the body of heavy metals like mercury (from fish) and cadmium. Garlic also acts as an antibacterial and antiviral, boosting resistance to stress-induced colds and infections. Can't stand garlic breath? Chew on a sprig of parsley.
Mushrooms
Used for centuries in Eastern medicine, mushrooms have powerful effects on the immune system – especially the maitake, shiitake, and reishi varieties. 'Mushrooms such as maitake help prevent and treat cancer, viral diseases, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure,' says Bauman. In fact, mushrooms are used as an adjunctive cancer treatment throughout Asia because of their ability to counteract the toxic effects of chemotherapy and radiation while simultaneously shrinking tumors. What's more, Japanese researchers have found that regularly eating shiitake mushrooms lowers blood cholesterol levels up to 45 percent.
Almonds
Almonds are loaded with fiber and monounsaturated fat, both of which have been shown to lower cholesterol. According to the Food and Drug Administration, eating 1.5 ounces of most nuts, including almonds, as part of a diet low in saturated fat and cholesterol may reduce the risk of heart disease. And even though almonds are relatively high in fat and calories, studies show that eating almonds can actually help with weight loss (their protein, fiber, and monounsaturated fats provide the feeling of fullness, preventing overeating).
Eggs
The best protein source on the planet, eggs consistently outrank milk, beef, whey, and soy in the quality of protein they provide. In addition to containing all nine essential amino acids, eggs are loaded with nutrients. 'And for God's sake, eat the yolks,' says Bowden.. People avoid the yolks because they fear cholesterol, but egg yolks contain choline, which helps protect heart and brain function and prevents cholesterol and fat from accumulating in the liver.
Flaxseeds
Loaded with alpha-linolenic acid, an essential fatty acid that helps reduce inflammation, flaxseed has been used for centuries for medicinal and health reasons. Gandhi himself proclaimed, 'Wherever flaxseed becomes a regular food item among the people, there will be better health.' Bauman adds, 'The seed itself has terrific nutritional value, very usable protein, tremendous fatty acids, and minerals like magnesium, potassium, and zinc.' Additionally, they're a great source of fiber.
Pomegranates
Pomegranates have up to three times the antioxidants of red wine and green tea – and the juice has been shown to reduce artery-clogging plaque, which in turn prevents heart disease and stroke. Research shows that long-term consumption of pomegranate juice may also help slow aging and protect against cancer.
Dark Chocolate
When it comes to chocolate, bitter is better – at least in terms of health. The benefits of chocolate come from flavonols and antioxidants (the same disease-fighting chemicals found in cranberries, apples, strawberries, and red wine). The caveat: Only real cacao contains flavonols, so look for chocolate that boasts a high percentage of cacao (60 percent or more). Dark chocolate also has fewer calories than other varieties, and when eaten in moderation, it lowers unhealthy LDL cholesterol and prevents plaque from building up in your arteries.
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The 12 Most Powerful Super Foods for you.....
Why Are They So Super?
Ask five nutritionists to rate the 12 most powerful foods and you'll get five different lists, but many of the selections will overlap. Why? Because every food provides something different: Some are a rich source of protein or fiber but void of many vitamins and minerals, while others contain disease-fighting phytonutrients, vitamins and minerals, but no protein. The trick, claim experts, is to get a variety of the best foods. The following 12 power foods are a good place to start.
Avocados
Sure they're high in fat, but avocados contain healthful monounsaturated fat, which has been linked to a reduced risk of cancer, heart disease, and diabetes. 'Avocados aid in blood and tissue regeneration, stabilize blood sugar, and are excellent for heart disorders,' says Ed Bauman, Ph.D., director of Bauman College . They're loaded with fiber (11 to 17 grams per fruit) and are a good source of lutein, an antioxidant linked to eye and skin health.
Apples
'An apple a day really does keep the doctor away,' says Jonny Bowden, Ph.D., C.N.S., author of The 150 Healthiest Foods on Earth. Apples are loaded with the powerful antioxidants quercetin and catechin, which protect cells from damage - that means a reduced risk of cancer and cardiovascular disease, especially if you eat the skin. Research shows that the apple peel contains five times more polyphenols than the flesh. Apples and their skins pack a lot of fiber too (about twice that of other common fruits, including peaches, grapes, and grapefruit), which may help fight the battle of the bulge.
Blueberries
Antiaging superstars, blueberries are loaded with antioxidants, especially anthocyanins, which have been shown to improve vision and brain function. Studies show that eating blueberries slows impairments in motor coordination and memory that accompany aging. These little berries also reduce inflammation, which is inextricably linked with virtually every chronic disease from Alzheimer's and Parkinson's, to diabetes and heart disease. Other studies show that blueberries have much greater anticancer activity than other fruits
Cabbage
In the vegetable world, the Brassica genus reigns supreme, and the cabbage is the most impressive of the lot. Brassica vegetables (including broccoli, bok choy) contain compounds called indoles, which have been shown to reduce the risk of cancer dramatically. 'Eating cabbage more than once a week cut men's colon cancer odds by 66 percent,' says Bauman. 'Cabbage also stimulates the immune system, kills bacteria and viruses, and is a good blood purifier.' If you go for the red variety, you'll also get a healthy dose of anthocyanins (the same pigment molecules that make blueberries blue), another powerful antioxidant with an anticancer punch.
Fish and Fish Oil
Eating fish helps cut the risk of heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer's, stroke, diabetes, and arthritis. The fatty varieties may also help alleviate depression. The American Heart Association recommends that adults eat at least two fish meals per week, especially wild salmon, herring, and sardines, because those varieties provide the most heart-healthy omega 3s. Avoid mercury-containing varieties like shark, swordfish, king mackerel, tilefish, and albacore tuna, says Roberta Anding, M.S., R.D., national spokesperson for the American Dietetic Association. (Chunk light tuna is okay.)
Garlic
Research shows that garlic lowers total cholesterol and triglyceride (blood fat) levels, helping prevent clogged arteries. 'Two to three cloves a day cut the odds of subsequent heart attacks in half for heart disease patients,' says Bauman. 'Garlic also tops the National Cancer Institute's list of potential cancer-preventive foods.' Whole baked garlic helps detoxify the body of heavy metals like mercury (from fish) and cadmium. Garlic also acts as an antibacterial and antiviral, boosting resistance to stress-induced colds and infections. Can't stand garlic breath? Chew on a sprig of parsley.
Mushrooms
Used for centuries in Eastern medicine, mushrooms have powerful effects on the immune system – especially the maitake, shiitake, and reishi varieties. 'Mushrooms such as maitake help prevent and treat cancer, viral diseases, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure,' says Bauman. In fact, mushrooms are used as an adjunctive cancer treatment throughout Asia because of their ability to counteract the toxic effects of chemotherapy and radiation while simultaneously shrinking tumors. What's more, Japanese researchers have found that regularly eating shiitake mushrooms lowers blood cholesterol levels up to 45 percent.
Almonds
Almonds are loaded with fiber and monounsaturated fat, both of which have been shown to lower cholesterol. According to the Food and Drug Administration, eating 1.5 ounces of most nuts, including almonds, as part of a diet low in saturated fat and cholesterol may reduce the risk of heart disease. And even though almonds are relatively high in fat and calories, studies show that eating almonds can actually help with weight loss (their protein, fiber, and monounsaturated fats provide the feeling of fullness, preventing overeating).
Eggs
The best protein source on the planet, eggs consistently outrank milk, beef, whey, and soy in the quality of protein they provide. In addition to containing all nine essential amino acids, eggs are loaded with nutrients. 'And for God's sake, eat the yolks,' says Bowden.. People avoid the yolks because they fear cholesterol, but egg yolks contain choline, which helps protect heart and brain function and prevents cholesterol and fat from accumulating in the liver.
Flaxseeds
Loaded with alpha-linolenic acid, an essential fatty acid that helps reduce inflammation, flaxseed has been used for centuries for medicinal and health reasons. Gandhi himself proclaimed, 'Wherever flaxseed becomes a regular food item among the people, there will be better health.' Bauman adds, 'The seed itself has terrific nutritional value, very usable protein, tremendous fatty acids, and minerals like magnesium, potassium, and zinc.' Additionally, they're a great source of fiber.
Pomegranates
Pomegranates have up to three times the antioxidants of red wine and green tea – and the juice has been shown to reduce artery-clogging plaque, which in turn prevents heart disease and stroke. Research shows that long-term consumption of pomegranate juice may also help slow aging and protect against cancer.
Dark Chocolate
When it comes to chocolate, bitter is better – at least in terms of health. The benefits of chocolate come from flavonols and antioxidants (the same disease-fighting chemicals found in cranberries, apples, strawberries, and red wine). The caveat: Only real cacao contains flavonols, so look for chocolate that boasts a high percentage of cacao (60 percent or more). Dark chocolate also has fewer calories than other varieties, and when eaten in moderation, it lowers unhealthy LDL cholesterol and prevents plaque from building up in your arteries.
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Friday, August 21, 2009
The People I've Met
In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose. Some were put there to test you, some would use you, some would teach you, and some would bring out the better if not the best in you.
Some may even cause you pain and heartache... but one must learn to move on...So let go of the people who can't treat you right and hold on to those who love you back and see your worth. Hoping to found out empathize person and away from selfish people.
In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose and needyQ
In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose and needyQ
မိမိကိုယ္တိုင္က လူမလုပ္္တတ္ခဲ့ရင္ လူေတြကို ဘယ္လို ဦးေဆာင္မလဲ...
ေက်ာင္းဖြင့္စေန႔၌ စာသင္ခန္းထဲတြင္ “ဦးေဆာင္မႈ ဘာသာရပ္” ကို လာသင္ယူသည့္ ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားျဖင့္ ျပည့္္က်ပ္ေနခဲ့သည္။ ဤေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားသည္ ေနာင္၂ႏွစ္ေနျပီးလွ်င္ စီးပြားေရးနယ္ထဲသို႔ ၀င္ေရာက္ၾကမည့္ MBA ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားျဖစ္သည္။ ပထမဆံုးအခ်ိန္မို႔ ဆရာ၏ အလာကို တက္ၾကြစြာ သူတို႔ေစာင့္ေနၾကသည္။ ခဏအၾကာတြင္ ဧည့္သည္ေတာ္ ႏွစ္ဦးႏွင့္အတူ ဆရာကဦးေဆာင္ျပီး စာသင္ခန္းထဲသို႔ ၀င္ေရာက္လာသည္။
ဧည့္သည္ေတာ္ ႏွစ္ဦးအနက္ တစ္ဦးမွာ မ်က္ႏွာစိမ္းလူငယ္ တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ျပီး က်န္တစ္ဦးမွာ စီးပြားေရး နယ္ပယ္တြင္ လူသိမ်ားေသာ နာမည္ၾကီး ပုဂၢိဳလ္တစ္ဦးျဖစ္သည္။ အသက္အရြယ္ ဆရာႏွင့္ မတိမ္းမယိမ္း ၆၀ ခန္႔ရွိမည္။ ေရွးဦးစြာ ဆရာက လူငယ္ႏွင့္ မိတ္ဆက္ေပးသည္။ သူသည္ ယခင္ႏွစ္က ဤေက်ာင္းမွ ေက်ာင္းျပီး သြားေသာ အဆင့္တစ္ရ MBA ေက်ာင္းသား တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ျပီး က်န္တစ္ဦးမွာ ဆရာ၏အထက္တန္း ေက်ာင္းေနဖက္ သူငယ္ခ်င္းျဖစ္သည္။ သူ၏ပညာအရည္အခ်င္းမွာ အထက္တန္း ေအာင္ရံုမွ်သာျဖစ္သည္။
ဆရာက ဤဧည့္သည္ေတာ္ ႏွစ္ဦးသည္ “ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္းတစ္ဦး” ဟုေသာ ေခါင္းစဥ္ကို မိနစ္၂၀ၾကာမွ် ေဟာေျပာၾကမည္ျဖစ္ျပီး သူတို႔ေဟာေျပာေသာ ျခားနားခ်က္ကို ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားက ေရးမွတ္ ရမည္ျဖစ္သည္။ ပထမဦးစြာ အဆင့္တစ္ရ ေက်ာင္းသားက မိနစ္(၂၀) အခ်ိန္တိုတို အတြင္းတြင္ နာမည္ၾကီး ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ငါးဦးတို႔၏ အေတြ႔အၾကံဳႏွင့္ ဦးေဆာင္ပံုမ်ားကို ေျပာခဲ့သည္။ ထိုသူငါးဦးမွာ GE(General Electric) မွ Jack Welch၊ Intel မွ Andrew S. Grove၊ စီမံခန္႔ခဲြမႈး Peter F. Drucker ႏွင့္ ထိုင္၀မ္မွ နာမည္ၾကီး ႏွစ္ဦးလည္းပါ၀င္သည္။ ထိုသူငါးဦး၏ ဦးေဆာင္နည္းမွာ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္းတစ္ ဦးတြင္ ရွိသင့္သည္ဟု ေျပာၾကားခဲ့သည္။
လူငယ္မွာ ယံုၾကည္မႈအျပည့္ႏွင့္ ေျပာေဟာအျပီး မိုက္ခရိုဖုန္းကို ေနာက္လူအား ကမ္းလိုက္သည္။ ထိုသူမွာ တစ္ခ်က္ျပံဳးျပီး စကားစလိုက္သည္။ “ ဒီ ေခါင္းေဆာင္းေကာင္း တစ္ဦး ဆိုတဲ့ေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ကြ်န္ေတာ္ စကား တစ္ခြန္းထဲနဲ႔ပဲ အျပီးသတ္လိုက္လို႔ရတယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္ကို အေခ်ာင္ခိုတယ္ ထင္မွာဆိုလို႔ ဒီစကား တစ္ခြန္းကို မိနစ္(၂၀)အသံုးျပဳျပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေျပာရေတာ့မယ္။ ဒီဦးေဆာင္မႈကို ႐ႈပ္ေထြးေအာင္ လုပ္ခဲ့မိတဲ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္အျဖစ္လို႔ ေနာင္တစ္ခ်ိန္မွာ မၾကံဳၾကေစဖို႔ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ပါတယ္”
“ကြ်န္ေတာ့္လုပ္သက္ အႏွစ္(၄၀)လံုးလံုးမွာ ကြ်န္ေတာ္သိခ်င္တဲ့ ကိစၥတစ္ခုကို မျပတ္ေလ့လာခဲ့မိတယ္။ အဲတာကေတာ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္ ကုမၸဏီမွာ အလုပ္လာလုပ္တဲ့ လူေတြဟာ “ေငြ” ေၾကာင့္မဟုတ္ဘဲ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္လားဆိုတာပါပဲ။ အဲတာကို သိဖို႔ အႏွစ္(၄၀)လံုး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ေလ့က်င့္ခဲ့ရတယ္”
(ဤေနရာတြင္ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုသည္မွာ စိတ္ပါလက္ပါ ကိုဆိုလိုျခင္းျဖစ္ျပီး “ေငြ”ေၾကာင့္ ဆိုသည္မွာ လချဖစ္သည္)
“ေငြ”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုတာက လုပ္ရတာ လြယ္ပါတယ္။ စီမံခန္႔ခဲြတဲ့ ပညာရွိရင္ လံုေလာက္ပါျပီ။ ဒါေပမယ့္ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုတာက ခက္တယ္။ ၀န္ထမ္းေတြ ကိုယ့္ကို စိတ္ထဲကေန လက္ခံလာဖို႔လိုတယ္။ ဒါေၾကာင့္ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္အေနနဲ႔ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္း တစ္ဦးဆိုတာ အက်ယ္တ၀င့္ ေျပာေနစရာ မလိုဘူး.. “ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ေကာင္းတစ္ဦးျဖစ္ဖို႔ သင္ယူေနတာဟာ လူလုပ္တတ္ဖို႔ သင္ယူေနတာနဲ႔ အတူတူပဲ” ဆိုတဲ့ စကားတစ္ခြန္းနဲ႔ပဲ ခုနားေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ေျပာခ်င္ပါတယ္”
“ဒီေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ဘာမွ နားမလည္တဲ့အဆင့္၊ ပ ရာထူး၊ ဒု ရာထူး၊ တ ရာထူးကေန သူေဌးအထိ အဆင့္(၅)ခုခဲြျပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေျပာခ်င္ပါတယ္။ လူလုပ္တတ္ဖို႔အတြက္ အဆင့္တစ္ဆင့္ခ်င္းကို ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေလ့လာခဲ့တယ္။ အဆင့္(၅)ဆင့္ထဲကို ႏွစ္(၄၀)ေလာက္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ျဖဳန္းခဲ့ရတယ္။ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေက်ာင္းျပီးစ ဘာမွမသိ နားမလည္တဲ့ အခ်ိန္တုန္းက No ဆိုတာကို နည္းနည္းပဲ ေျပာျပီး Yes ဆိုတာကို မ်ားမ်ားေျပာ တတ္ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ အလုပ္ကေပးတဲ့ ကိစၥေတြ ဘယ္ေလာက္ခက္ခဲပါေစ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ Noလို႔ မေျပာဘူး။ အဲဒီကိစၥကို ကိုယ္တိုင္ဘယ္လို ေျဖရွင္းမလဲ ဆိုတာပဲ ကြ်န္ေတာ္စဥ္းစားတယ္။ အဲဒီလို ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ ကုိယ့္ကို တေျဖးေျဖး ၾကီးျပင္းလာျပီလို႔ ခံစားမိတယ္”
“အဲဒီလိုနဲ႔ ရာထူးတက္ျပီး ပထမအဆင့္ကို ေရာက္ေတာ့ နည္းနည္းေျပာျပီး မ်ားမ်ားနား ေထာင္တတ္ ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ နားေထာင္ႏိုင္တဲ့ အခ်ိန္မွာ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ႏုတ္မဟခဲ့ဘူး။ သူတို႔ေျပာတ့ဲ စကားေတြထဲက ဘယ္အရာဟာ အေရးၾကီးသလဲ ဆိုတဲ့အခ်က္ကို ခဲြတတ္ေအာင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ စကားေျပာတဲ့အခ်ိန္မွာ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ အခ်က္ကိုပဲေျပာတဲ့ အသိကိုရလိုက္တယ္”
“ရာထူးေနာက္တစ္ဆင့္ တက္ေတာ့ “ငါ”ဆိုတာကို နည္းႏိုင္သမွ်နည္း “သူ”ဆိုတာကို မ်ားႏိုင္သမွ် မ်ားေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ဒါက သူတစ္ပါးအတြက္ ပိုစဥ္းစားေပးျပီး ကိုယ့္အတြက္ ေလ်ာ့စဥ္းစားတာကို ေျပာတာ..ဘာမဆို တစ္ဖက္လူရဲ႔ ႐ႈေထာင့္က ၾကည့္ေပးတယ္။ ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ သေဘာထား ၾကီးလာတယ္.. ရက္ေရာ တတ္လာတယ္”
“ေနာက္တစ္ဆင့္ ထပ္တက္ေတာ့ အေဟာင္းနည္းျပီး အသစ္ကို မ်ားမ်ား လက္ခံတတ္ ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ သေဘာက ကြ်န္ေတာ္လုပ္လို႔ ေအာင္ျမင္ခဲ့တဲ့ အရာေတြကို ထပ္သလဲလဲ မလုပ္ေတာ့ဘူး။ လုပ္ရင္ အသစ္ အဆန္းကို မစမ္းသပ္မိမွာစိုးလို႔... ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ အသစ္ေတြကို မျပတ္ ထြင္ႏိုင္ခဲ့တယ္”
“ေနာက္ဆံုး ကုမၸဏီေထာင္ျပီး ကိုယ္တုိင္သူေဌးလုပ္ေတာ့ သိတာကို နည္းျပီး မ်ားမ်ားဖတ္တတ္ ေအာင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ဘာမွ မသိနားမလည္တဲ့ အဆင့္ကေန တစ္ဖန္ျပန္စဖို႔ ကိုယ့္ကိုေလ့က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ အခ်ိန္ေပးျပီး စာပိုဖတ္ခဲ့တယ္။ စာဖတ္မ်ားလာေတာ့ ကို္ယ္မသိ နားမလည္တာမ်ားေသးေၾကာင္း ကိုယ့္ရဲ႕ ဟာကြက္ေတြကို ျပန္ျမင္လာတယ္”
ေနာက္ဆံုးတြင္ ဆရာက ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားအား အေတြ႔အၾကံဳ မရွိသူႏွင့္ ရွိသူကို ေဟာေျပာခိုင္းရျခင္း၏ အဓိက ရည္ရြယ္ခ်က္မွာ ရိုးရွင္းေသာ အျဖစ္တစ္ခုကို ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ား ကိုယ္တိုင္ခံစားမိ ေစရန္ႏွင့္ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ေကာင္း တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ရန္ ၾကံစည္ေနသူမ်ား လူပီသဖို႔ အရင္ၾကိဳးစားသင့္ေၾကာင္း ေျပာသြားခဲ့သည္။
မိမိကိုယ္တိုင္က လူမလုပ္္တတ္ခဲ့ရင္ လူေတြကို ဘယ္လို ဦးေဆာင္မလဲ... အသိပညာဆိုတာ လူပီသတာနဲ႔ ဆက္ႏြယ္ေနတယ္။
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ဧည့္သည္ေတာ္ ႏွစ္ဦးအနက္ တစ္ဦးမွာ မ်က္ႏွာစိမ္းလူငယ္ တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ျပီး က်န္တစ္ဦးမွာ စီးပြားေရး နယ္ပယ္တြင္ လူသိမ်ားေသာ နာမည္ၾကီး ပုဂၢိဳလ္တစ္ဦးျဖစ္သည္။ အသက္အရြယ္ ဆရာႏွင့္ မတိမ္းမယိမ္း ၆၀ ခန္႔ရွိမည္။ ေရွးဦးစြာ ဆရာက လူငယ္ႏွင့္ မိတ္ဆက္ေပးသည္။ သူသည္ ယခင္ႏွစ္က ဤေက်ာင္းမွ ေက်ာင္းျပီး သြားေသာ အဆင့္တစ္ရ MBA ေက်ာင္းသား တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ျပီး က်န္တစ္ဦးမွာ ဆရာ၏အထက္တန္း ေက်ာင္းေနဖက္ သူငယ္ခ်င္းျဖစ္သည္။ သူ၏ပညာအရည္အခ်င္းမွာ အထက္တန္း ေအာင္ရံုမွ်သာျဖစ္သည္။
ဆရာက ဤဧည့္သည္ေတာ္ ႏွစ္ဦးသည္ “ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္းတစ္ဦး” ဟုေသာ ေခါင္းစဥ္ကို မိနစ္၂၀ၾကာမွ် ေဟာေျပာၾကမည္ျဖစ္ျပီး သူတို႔ေဟာေျပာေသာ ျခားနားခ်က္ကို ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားက ေရးမွတ္ ရမည္ျဖစ္သည္။ ပထမဦးစြာ အဆင့္တစ္ရ ေက်ာင္းသားက မိနစ္(၂၀) အခ်ိန္တိုတို အတြင္းတြင္ နာမည္ၾကီး ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ငါးဦးတို႔၏ အေတြ႔အၾကံဳႏွင့္ ဦးေဆာင္ပံုမ်ားကို ေျပာခဲ့သည္။ ထိုသူငါးဦးမွာ GE(General Electric) မွ Jack Welch၊ Intel မွ Andrew S. Grove၊ စီမံခန္႔ခဲြမႈး Peter F. Drucker ႏွင့္ ထိုင္၀မ္မွ နာမည္ၾကီး ႏွစ္ဦးလည္းပါ၀င္သည္။ ထိုသူငါးဦး၏ ဦးေဆာင္နည္းမွာ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္းတစ္ ဦးတြင္ ရွိသင့္သည္ဟု ေျပာၾကားခဲ့သည္။
လူငယ္မွာ ယံုၾကည္မႈအျပည့္ႏွင့္ ေျပာေဟာအျပီး မိုက္ခရိုဖုန္းကို ေနာက္လူအား ကမ္းလိုက္သည္။ ထိုသူမွာ တစ္ခ်က္ျပံဳးျပီး စကားစလိုက္သည္။ “ ဒီ ေခါင္းေဆာင္းေကာင္း တစ္ဦး ဆိုတဲ့ေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ကြ်န္ေတာ္ စကား တစ္ခြန္းထဲနဲ႔ပဲ အျပီးသတ္လိုက္လို႔ရတယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္ကို အေခ်ာင္ခိုတယ္ ထင္မွာဆိုလို႔ ဒီစကား တစ္ခြန္းကို မိနစ္(၂၀)အသံုးျပဳျပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေျပာရေတာ့မယ္။ ဒီဦးေဆာင္မႈကို ႐ႈပ္ေထြးေအာင္ လုပ္ခဲ့မိတဲ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္အျဖစ္လို႔ ေနာင္တစ္ခ်ိန္မွာ မၾကံဳၾကေစဖို႔ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ပါတယ္”
“ကြ်န္ေတာ့္လုပ္သက္ အႏွစ္(၄၀)လံုးလံုးမွာ ကြ်န္ေတာ္သိခ်င္တဲ့ ကိစၥတစ္ခုကို မျပတ္ေလ့လာခဲ့မိတယ္။ အဲတာကေတာ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္ ကုမၸဏီမွာ အလုပ္လာလုပ္တဲ့ လူေတြဟာ “ေငြ” ေၾကာင့္မဟုတ္ဘဲ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္လားဆိုတာပါပဲ။ အဲတာကို သိဖို႔ အႏွစ္(၄၀)လံုး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ေလ့က်င့္ခဲ့ရတယ္”
(ဤေနရာတြင္ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုသည္မွာ စိတ္ပါလက္ပါ ကိုဆိုလိုျခင္းျဖစ္ျပီး “ေငြ”ေၾကာင့္ ဆိုသည္မွာ လချဖစ္သည္)
“ေငြ”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုတာက လုပ္ရတာ လြယ္ပါတယ္။ စီမံခန္႔ခဲြတဲ့ ပညာရွိရင္ လံုေလာက္ပါျပီ။ ဒါေပမယ့္ “စိတ္”ေၾကာင့္ဆိုတာက ခက္တယ္။ ၀န္ထမ္းေတြ ကိုယ့္ကို စိတ္ထဲကေန လက္ခံလာဖို႔လိုတယ္။ ဒါေၾကာင့္ ကြ်န္ေတာ့္အေနနဲ႔ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ေကာင္း တစ္ဦးဆိုတာ အက်ယ္တ၀င့္ ေျပာေနစရာ မလိုဘူး.. “ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ေကာင္းတစ္ဦးျဖစ္ဖို႔ သင္ယူေနတာဟာ လူလုပ္တတ္ဖို႔ သင္ယူေနတာနဲ႔ အတူတူပဲ” ဆိုတဲ့ စကားတစ္ခြန္းနဲ႔ပဲ ခုနားေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ေျပာခ်င္ပါတယ္”
“ဒီေခါင္းစဥ္ကို ဘာမွ နားမလည္တဲ့အဆင့္၊ ပ ရာထူး၊ ဒု ရာထူး၊ တ ရာထူးကေန သူေဌးအထိ အဆင့္(၅)ခုခဲြျပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေျပာခ်င္ပါတယ္။ လူလုပ္တတ္ဖို႔အတြက္ အဆင့္တစ္ဆင့္ခ်င္းကို ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေလ့လာခဲ့တယ္။ အဆင့္(၅)ဆင့္ထဲကို ႏွစ္(၄၀)ေလာက္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ျဖဳန္းခဲ့ရတယ္။ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ေက်ာင္းျပီးစ ဘာမွမသိ နားမလည္တဲ့ အခ်ိန္တုန္းက No ဆိုတာကို နည္းနည္းပဲ ေျပာျပီး Yes ဆိုတာကို မ်ားမ်ားေျပာ တတ္ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ အလုပ္ကေပးတဲ့ ကိစၥေတြ ဘယ္ေလာက္ခက္ခဲပါေစ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ Noလို႔ မေျပာဘူး။ အဲဒီကိစၥကို ကိုယ္တိုင္ဘယ္လို ေျဖရွင္းမလဲ ဆိုတာပဲ ကြ်န္ေတာ္စဥ္းစားတယ္။ အဲဒီလို ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ ကုိယ့္ကို တေျဖးေျဖး ၾကီးျပင္းလာျပီလို႔ ခံစားမိတယ္”
“အဲဒီလိုနဲ႔ ရာထူးတက္ျပီး ပထမအဆင့္ကို ေရာက္ေတာ့ နည္းနည္းေျပာျပီး မ်ားမ်ားနား ေထာင္တတ္ ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ နားေထာင္ႏိုင္တဲ့ အခ်ိန္မွာ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ႏုတ္မဟခဲ့ဘူး။ သူတို႔ေျပာတ့ဲ စကားေတြထဲက ဘယ္အရာဟာ အေရးၾကီးသလဲ ဆိုတဲ့အခ်က္ကို ခဲြတတ္ေအာင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ စကားေျပာတဲ့အခ်ိန္မွာ အေရးၾကီးတဲ့ အခ်က္ကိုပဲေျပာတဲ့ အသိကိုရလိုက္တယ္”
“ရာထူးေနာက္တစ္ဆင့္ တက္ေတာ့ “ငါ”ဆိုတာကို နည္းႏိုင္သမွ်နည္း “သူ”ဆိုတာကို မ်ားႏိုင္သမွ် မ်ားေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ဒါက သူတစ္ပါးအတြက္ ပိုစဥ္းစားေပးျပီး ကိုယ့္အတြက္ ေလ်ာ့စဥ္းစားတာကို ေျပာတာ..ဘာမဆို တစ္ဖက္လူရဲ႔ ႐ႈေထာင့္က ၾကည့္ေပးတယ္။ ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ သေဘာထား ၾကီးလာတယ္.. ရက္ေရာ တတ္လာတယ္”
“ေနာက္တစ္ဆင့္ ထပ္တက္ေတာ့ အေဟာင္းနည္းျပီး အသစ္ကို မ်ားမ်ား လက္ခံတတ္ ေအာင္ က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ သေဘာက ကြ်န္ေတာ္လုပ္လို႔ ေအာင္ျမင္ခဲ့တဲ့ အရာေတြကို ထပ္သလဲလဲ မလုပ္ေတာ့ဘူး။ လုပ္ရင္ အသစ္ အဆန္းကို မစမ္းသပ္မိမွာစိုးလို႔... ေလ့က်င့္တာ ၾကာလာေတာ့ အသစ္ေတြကို မျပတ္ ထြင္ႏိုင္ခဲ့တယ္”
“ေနာက္ဆံုး ကုမၸဏီေထာင္ျပီး ကိုယ္တုိင္သူေဌးလုပ္ေတာ့ သိတာကို နည္းျပီး မ်ားမ်ားဖတ္တတ္ ေအာင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ ဘာမွ မသိနားမလည္တဲ့ အဆင့္ကေန တစ္ဖန္ျပန္စဖို႔ ကိုယ့္ကိုေလ့က်င့္ခဲ့တယ္။ အခ်ိန္ေပးျပီး စာပိုဖတ္ခဲ့တယ္။ စာဖတ္မ်ားလာေတာ့ ကို္ယ္မသိ နားမလည္တာမ်ားေသးေၾကာင္း ကိုယ့္ရဲ႕ ဟာကြက္ေတြကို ျပန္ျမင္လာတယ္”
ေနာက္ဆံုးတြင္ ဆရာက ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ားအား အေတြ႔အၾကံဳ မရွိသူႏွင့္ ရွိသူကို ေဟာေျပာခိုင္းရျခင္း၏ အဓိက ရည္ရြယ္ခ်က္မွာ ရိုးရွင္းေသာ အျဖစ္တစ္ခုကို ေက်ာင္းသားမ်ား ကိုယ္တိုင္ခံစားမိ ေစရန္ႏွင့္ ေခါင္းေဆာင္ ေကာင္း တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ရန္ ၾကံစည္ေနသူမ်ား လူပီသဖို႔ အရင္ၾကိဳးစားသင့္ေၾကာင္း ေျပာသြားခဲ့သည္။
မိမိကိုယ္တိုင္က လူမလုပ္္တတ္ခဲ့ရင္ လူေတြကို ဘယ္လို ဦးေဆာင္မလဲ... အသိပညာဆိုတာ လူပီသတာနဲ႔ ဆက္ႏြယ္ေနတယ္။
Writer Unknown
ခ်စ္သူေတြအားလံုးတစ္ဦးကိုတစ္ဦးခ်စ္ျမတ္ႏိုးႏိုင္ ၾကပါေစ။
I just received this story from forward mail. It's really freak and miserable. Sometime we comprehended differently. I am also have a lot of things keep in my heart and never open and talk because in my mind, I felt that if I'm open also can't make change an turn, may be going worst. It's really tired and sometime hurt. I don't know it's right or wrong. Just want to see someone happy and don't want to disturb with my feeling. It's a good story and it's make me feel.
ဒီေန႔ ေက်ာင္းတက္တာေနာက္ဆံုးရက္ပါ… ေက်ာင္းေစာဆင္းလို႔ သူ႔ဆီကို
ဖုန္းဆက္ေပးလိုက္တယ္။
- hello , င့ါကို လာႀကိဳ
- ၅ မိနစ္ေစာင့္။
- ၅ မိနစ္ ။ ေက်ာင္းနဲ႔ နင့္အိမ္ကနီးနီးေလကို….
- ဟာ… အ၀တ္ေလး လဲပါရေစအံုး…
- ေအး… ျမန္ျမန္ေနာ္….
ဒီလိုနဲ႔ ေနျပင္းခ်ိန္ ၂ နာရီမွာ ကၽြန္မ
သစ္ပင္ေအာက္မွာသူ႔ကိုေစာင့္ခဲ့
တယ္….၅ မိနစ္ေက်ာ္သြားၿပီ သူမလာေသးဘူး ေစာင့္ရတာစိတ္မ႐ွည္ေတာ့ဘူး
၁၀ မိနစ္ သူမလာျပန္ဘူး
၁၅ မိနစ္ သူေနာက္ဆံုးေတာ့ေရာက္လာၿပီ။
- ဘာလုိ႔ အဲေလာက္ေနာက္က်တာတုန္း။
- ဒီလုိပါပဲ။
ကၽြန္မ မေက်နပ္ေတာ့ သူ႔ကို မ်က္ေစာင္းနဲ႔ ၾကည့္ေနမိတယ္… စကားလဲ
ဆက္မေျပာေတာ့ဘူး
ဆိုင္ကယ္စီးဦးထုပ္ကိုလည္း မယူဘူး ဒါနဲ႔ သူက…
- sorry
ဒါက သူ ပထမအႀကိမ္ေတာင္းပန္ျခင္းပါ သူက ဒီလိုဟိုလို ဆိုၿပီး မေျပာတတ္ဘူး
ေတာင္းပန္တာလည္းမ႐ွိဘူး ဒါေၾကာင့္ သူ႔ကို ခြင့္လြတ္လိုက္တယ္..
သူအိမ္ျပန္ပို႔ေပးတယ္….
သူ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ ႐ွင္းလင္းခ်က္ေတြမေပးဘူး ရန္လည္းမျဖစ္ဘူး တစ္ခါတစ္ရံ sorry
ဆိုတာနဲ႔ ၿပီးသြားတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး …. သူေတာင္းပန္တိုင္း ခြင့္လြတ္လိုက္တယ္…
ကၽြန္မက သူပထမေတာင္းပန္ျခင္းခံရတဲ့ မိန္းကေလးမို႔ပါ….
ဟုတ္ပါတယ္ မွားတယ္ဆိုၿပီးေျပာဖို႔ဆိုတာ ေတာ္ေတာ္ခက္ခဲပါတယ္.. ဒါေပမဲ့
ဒီလိုခ်ည္းပဲလဲ မေကာင္းဘူးထင္တယ္… sorry ဆိုၿပီး ၿပီးသြားသလိုပဲ….
သူ႔ကိုအခြင့္အေရးေတြေပးတယ္ သူမျပင္ဘူး သူကၽြန္မကိုဖက္ၿပီး အႀကိမ္ ၆၀
ေျမာက္
sorry ကိုေျပာတယ္… သူတစ္ခုခု ဖံုးကြယ္ထားသလို ခံစားလာရတယ္…
- ခုတေလာနင္တမ်ိဳးႀကီးပဲ
- ဟုတ္ပါဘူးကြာ..
- နင္ဘာျဖစ္ေနလဲ
- ဘာမွျဖစ္ပါဘူး
- ဒီလုိပဲေျပာေနတာပဲ ငါစိတ္ပူတာကိုေကာ နင္သိရဲ့လား
နင္ရဲ့ရည္းစားပါဆိုတာကို နင္သတ္မွတ္ေသးပါတယ္ေနာ္..
- Sorry
- Sorry မေျပာနဲ႔ မၾကားခ်င္ဘူး
ဆိုၿပီး ကၽြန္မသူ႔ဖုန္းကိုခ်လိုက္တယ္.. သူျပန္မဆက္လာဘူး သူအေရးမလုပ္ဘူး
လမ္းခြဲသင့္ၿပီလို႔ ထင္လာတယ္… ဒါက အႀကိမ္ ၉၉ ၾကိမ္ေျမာက္ sorry
ေျပာျခင္းပါ…
အဲဒီေန႔ကေနစၿပီး သူကို အဆက္အသြယ္ျဖတ္လိုက္တယ္ တစ္ခါတစ္ေလေတာ့
ဘာမွမေျပာတဲ့
ဖုန္းေတြေတာ့ လက္ခံရ႐ွိတယ္ … ဒီလုိနဲ႔ ဖုန္းခ်ေပါင္းလည္းမနည္းေတာ့ဘူး
ဘာလုိ႔
သူစကားမေျပာရတာလဲ? တစ္လၿပီးေနာက္ သူကို သြား႐ွာဖို႔
သူ႔ေက်ာင္းကိုသြားခဲ့တယ္
သူကိုမေတြ႔ဘူး
- xxx ကို ႐ွာခ်င္လို႔ပါ
- သူေက်ာင္းနားလိုက္ၿပီ
- ဘာလုိ႔လဲ သိလား။
- တစ္လ႐ွိၿပီမလာတာ။
- ဟုတ္ ေက်းဇူးပါ။
တစ္လဟုတ္လား ဘာလုိ႔ပါလိမ့္ ကၽြန္မသူ႔ဆီ ဖုန္းဆက္တယ္….. ဖုန္းမကိုင္ဘူး
သူ႔အိမ္ကို သြားဖို႔ ဆံုးျဖတ္လိုက္တယ္ သူရည္းစားအသစ္မ်ား႐ွိေနၿပီလား
သူဒီကမာၻမွာ လံုး၀ေပ်ာက္ကြယ္သြားသလို …. သူကို ႐ွာလို႔မေတြ႔ဘူး …
သူ႔ကိုအရမ္းေတြ႔ခ်င္လာတယ္…. ဖုန္းျမည္လာတယ္.. သူ႔ရဲ့ သူငယ္ခ်င္းဆက္လာတယ္…
- ေဟ့ နင္ဘာလုပ္ေနတာတုန္း
- အမ္…
- Xxx ေဆး႐ံုမွာ
- ဘာ…… သူဘာျဖစ္လဲ
- နင္သြားလုိက္
- ေအး ခ်က္ျခင္းသြားမယ္
အျမန္ဆံုးႏႈန္းနဲ႔ ေဆး႐ံုကိုသြားခဲ့တယ္ .. ေဆး႐ံုေရာက္ေတာ့ သူ႔အေမ ကို
ေတြ႔တယ္.. သူ႔အခန္းဆီကို ေျပးခဲ့တယ္
သူ ကုတင္မွာ လဲေနတယ္ သူတို႔ကိုၾကည့္ၿပီး စကားမေျပာ လႈပ္ေတာင္မလႈပ္ဘူး
- နင္ဘာျဖစ္ေနတာလဲ ဘာလို႔မေျပာရတာလဲ
သူဘာမွျပန္မေျပာဘူး ဒီလုိပဲၾကည့္ေနတယ္…
- ေျပာ ေျပာ နင္တစ္ခုခုေျပာပါ…
သူ႔မ်က္စိေထာင့္ကေန မ်က္ရည္က်လာတယ္ သူအရမ္းအားယူလိုက္ၿပီး
- sorry
သူေျပာၿပီးတာနဲ႔ သူမ်က္စိပိတ္သြားတယ္..
- ဘာလဲဟာ sorry လို႔မေျပာနဲ႔ ေျပာတာကိုလဲ လက္မခံႏိုင္ဘူး ထ ထ
ၾကားလား….. ငါနင့္ကို မခြင့္လြတ္ဘူး …… ထ……… နင္မထရင္ ငါနင့္ကို
ဒီတစ္သက္မခြင့္လြတ္ဘူး…. မ်က္စိဖြင့္ပါ…………..
ဒါဟာ သူ sorry ေျပာတာ ၁၀၀ ျပည့္သြားတယ္ …. ဆရာ၀န္နဲ႔ ေဘးကလူေတြ ကၽြန္မကို
၀ိုင္းဆြဲတယ္..
ကၽြန္မ မထႏိုင္ေတာ့ဘူး ဘာမွလည္းမသိေတာ့ဘူး အေမွာင္ကမာၻထဲေရာက္သြားသလုိ…..
သူဒီကမာၻကေနမထြက္ခြါေသးပါဘူး သူကိုအျပင္ေလာကမွာမေတြ႕ရတာ
ကၽြန္မအိပ္မက္ထဲသူလာတယ္
သူေဘးမွာအျမဲ႐ွိေနတယ္… ကၽြန္မရင္ထဲမွာ သူ႐ွင္ေနေသးတယ္…. ဒါေပမဲ့ sorry
လို႔
သူမေျပာေတာ့ဘူး
လအေတာ္ၾကာေတာ့ သူ႔အေမလာ႐ွာတယ္ ဘူးေလးတစ္ခုကိုေပးတယ္..
ဘူးထဲမွာ ဓါတ္ပံုေတြခ်ည္းပဲ အပံုေပါင္း ၁၀၀ အပံုတိုင္းရဲ့ေနာက္မွာ
စာေရးထားတယ္…
ကၽြန္မကိုစိတ္ဆိုးေအာင္လုပ္မိတဲ့ကိစၥေတြအားလံုးကို ….
ပထမအႀကိမ္ sorry - မိန္းမ ဒီေန႔ တမင္ေနာက္က်တာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး
ဘာဆင္ေျခေတြေပးရမွန္းလဲ မသိဘူး အျဖစ္မွန္ကိုလည္းမေျပာခ်င္ဘူး။
အိမ္ကထြက္မယ္ဆိုမွ ႐ုတ္တရက္ ႏွလံုးေအာင့္လာတယ္ ဒါေပမဲ့
အစြမ္းကုန္ႀကိဳးစားၿပီးလာခဲ့တယ္ ခြင့္လြတ္ပါေနာ္…
ဒုတိယ sorry - မိန္းမ ငါ…………
တတိယ sorry - …………….
……………………………..
……………………….
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၁၀၀ sorry - မိန္းမ ငါမင္းကို ပစ္သြားတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး
မင္းကိုတစ္သက္လံုးခ်စ္ဖို႔
ဘုရားက ကိုယ္႕ ကိုအခြင့္အေရးမေပးဘူး ဒီလက္စြပ္ေလးကိုစြပ္ေစခ်င္တယ္..
မင္းဟာ ငါ
ပထမ sorry ေျပာတဲ့မိန္းကေလးပါ ထာ၀ရလက္တြဲဖို႔ ဆံုးျဖတ္ေစသူပါ ငါ
မင္းကိုေပ်ာ္႐ႊင္မႈေတြမေပးႏိုင္ေတာ့ဘူး ငါမင္းေဘးမွာ႐ွိေနမွာပါ
မင္းေပ်ာ္႐ႊင္ေနတာကိုၾကည့္ခ်င္တယ္ ကတိေပးပါ မငိုပါဘူးဆိုတာကို
မင္းမ်က္ရည္က်တာကို မခံစားႏိုင္လို႔ပါ…. သိပ္ခ်စ္တယ္…
ကၽြန္မ မငိုပဲ ဘယ္လိုေနႏိုင္ပါ့မလဲ………… ေနာက္ဆံုးဓါတ္ပံုကို
ေဆး႐ံုမွာ႐ိုက္ခဲ့တယ္… ၿပံဳးေနတဲ့အၿပံဳးေလးဟာ အရမ္းကိုေတာက္ပတယ္..
ဒါေပမဲ့
သိပ္ပိန္တယ္… မ်က္ႏွာကလည္း ျဖဴဖတ္ျဖဴေရာ္.. ဒါကို သူၿပံဳးႏိုင္တယ္ ဒီ
အပံု ၁၀၀
ေျမာက္ကို႐ိုက္ဖို႔အတြက္…
သူအရမ္းခံစားေနရတဲ့အခ်ိန္မွာ သူေဘးမွာမ႐ွိဘူး
Sorry ပါ….
သူ႔ဓါတ္ပံုေတြကို ေပြ႕ဖက္ၿပီး ကၽြန္မ အငိုမတိတ္ေတာ့ဘူး။
႐ွိသမွ်ခ်စ္သူေတြအားလံုးတစ္ဦးကိုတစ္ဦးခ်စ္ျမတ္ႏိုးႏိုင္ၾကပါေစ။
ဒီလုိအလြမ္းဇာတ္မ်ိဳးထပ္မျဖစ္ေစဖို႔ ဆုေတာင္းရင္း…………..
ဒီေန႔ ေက်ာင္းတက္တာေနာက္ဆံုးရက္ပါ… ေက်ာင္းေစာဆင္းလို႔ သူ႔ဆီကို
ဖုန္းဆက္ေပးလိုက္တယ္။
- hello , င့ါကို လာႀကိဳ
- ၅ မိနစ္ေစာင့္။
- ၅ မိနစ္ ။ ေက်ာင္းနဲ႔ နင့္အိမ္ကနီးနီးေလကို….
- ဟာ… အ၀တ္ေလး လဲပါရေစအံုး…
- ေအး… ျမန္ျမန္ေနာ္….
ဒီလိုနဲ႔ ေနျပင္းခ်ိန္ ၂ နာရီမွာ ကၽြန္မ
သစ္ပင္ေအာက္မွာသူ႔ကိုေစာင့္ခဲ့
တယ္….၅ မိနစ္ေက်ာ္သြားၿပီ သူမလာေသးဘူး ေစာင့္ရတာစိတ္မ႐ွည္ေတာ့ဘူး
၁၀ မိနစ္ သူမလာျပန္ဘူး
၁၅ မိနစ္ သူေနာက္ဆံုးေတာ့ေရာက္လာၿပီ။
- ဘာလုိ႔ အဲေလာက္ေနာက္က်တာတုန္း။
- ဒီလုိပါပဲ။
ကၽြန္မ မေက်နပ္ေတာ့ သူ႔ကို မ်က္ေစာင္းနဲ႔ ၾကည့္ေနမိတယ္… စကားလဲ
ဆက္မေျပာေတာ့ဘူး
ဆိုင္ကယ္စီးဦးထုပ္ကိုလည္း မယူဘူး ဒါနဲ႔ သူက…
- sorry
ဒါက သူ ပထမအႀကိမ္ေတာင္းပန္ျခင္းပါ သူက ဒီလိုဟိုလို ဆိုၿပီး မေျပာတတ္ဘူး
ေတာင္းပန္တာလည္းမ႐ွိဘူး ဒါေၾကာင့္ သူ႔ကို ခြင့္လြတ္လိုက္တယ္..
သူအိမ္ျပန္ပို႔ေပးတယ္….
သူ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ ႐ွင္းလင္းခ်က္ေတြမေပးဘူး ရန္လည္းမျဖစ္ဘူး တစ္ခါတစ္ရံ sorry
ဆိုတာနဲ႔ ၿပီးသြားတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး …. သူေတာင္းပန္တိုင္း ခြင့္လြတ္လိုက္တယ္…
ကၽြန္မက သူပထမေတာင္းပန္ျခင္းခံရတဲ့ မိန္းကေလးမို႔ပါ….
ဟုတ္ပါတယ္ မွားတယ္ဆိုၿပီးေျပာဖို႔ဆိုတာ ေတာ္ေတာ္ခက္ခဲပါတယ္.. ဒါေပမဲ့
ဒီလိုခ်ည္းပဲလဲ မေကာင္းဘူးထင္တယ္… sorry ဆိုၿပီး ၿပီးသြားသလိုပဲ….
သူ႔ကိုအခြင့္အေရးေတြေပးတယ္ သူမျပင္ဘူး သူကၽြန္မကိုဖက္ၿပီး အႀကိမ္ ၆၀
ေျမာက္
sorry ကိုေျပာတယ္… သူတစ္ခုခု ဖံုးကြယ္ထားသလို ခံစားလာရတယ္…
- ခုတေလာနင္တမ်ိဳးႀကီးပဲ
- ဟုတ္ပါဘူးကြာ..
- နင္ဘာျဖစ္ေနလဲ
- ဘာမွျဖစ္ပါဘူး
- ဒီလုိပဲေျပာေနတာပဲ ငါစိတ္ပူတာကိုေကာ နင္သိရဲ့လား
နင္ရဲ့ရည္းစားပါဆိုတာကို နင္သတ္မွတ္ေသးပါတယ္ေနာ္..
- Sorry
- Sorry မေျပာနဲ႔ မၾကားခ်င္ဘူး
ဆိုၿပီး ကၽြန္မသူ႔ဖုန္းကိုခ်လိုက္တယ္.. သူျပန္မဆက္လာဘူး သူအေရးမလုပ္ဘူး
လမ္းခြဲသင့္ၿပီလို႔ ထင္လာတယ္… ဒါက အႀကိမ္ ၉၉ ၾကိမ္ေျမာက္ sorry
ေျပာျခင္းပါ…
အဲဒီေန႔ကေနစၿပီး သူကို အဆက္အသြယ္ျဖတ္လိုက္တယ္ တစ္ခါတစ္ေလေတာ့
ဘာမွမေျပာတဲ့
ဖုန္းေတြေတာ့ လက္ခံရ႐ွိတယ္ … ဒီလုိနဲ႔ ဖုန္းခ်ေပါင္းလည္းမနည္းေတာ့ဘူး
ဘာလုိ႔
သူစကားမေျပာရတာလဲ? တစ္လၿပီးေနာက္ သူကို သြား႐ွာဖို႔
သူ႔ေက်ာင္းကိုသြားခဲ့တယ္
သူကိုမေတြ႔ဘူး
- xxx ကို ႐ွာခ်င္လို႔ပါ
- သူေက်ာင္းနားလိုက္ၿပီ
- ဘာလုိ႔လဲ သိလား။
- တစ္လ႐ွိၿပီမလာတာ။
- ဟုတ္ ေက်းဇူးပါ။
တစ္လဟုတ္လား ဘာလုိ႔ပါလိမ့္ ကၽြန္မသူ႔ဆီ ဖုန္းဆက္တယ္….. ဖုန္းမကိုင္ဘူး
သူ႔အိမ္ကို သြားဖို႔ ဆံုးျဖတ္လိုက္တယ္ သူရည္းစားအသစ္မ်ား႐ွိေနၿပီလား
သူဒီကမာၻမွာ လံုး၀ေပ်ာက္ကြယ္သြားသလို …. သူကို ႐ွာလို႔မေတြ႔ဘူး …
သူ႔ကိုအရမ္းေတြ႔ခ်င္လာတယ္…. ဖုန္းျမည္လာတယ္.. သူ႔ရဲ့ သူငယ္ခ်င္းဆက္လာတယ္…
- ေဟ့ နင္ဘာလုပ္ေနတာတုန္း
- အမ္…
- Xxx ေဆး႐ံုမွာ
- ဘာ…… သူဘာျဖစ္လဲ
- နင္သြားလုိက္
- ေအး ခ်က္ျခင္းသြားမယ္
အျမန္ဆံုးႏႈန္းနဲ႔ ေဆး႐ံုကိုသြားခဲ့တယ္ .. ေဆး႐ံုေရာက္ေတာ့ သူ႔အေမ ကို
ေတြ႔တယ္.. သူ႔အခန္းဆီကို ေျပးခဲ့တယ္
သူ ကုတင္မွာ လဲေနတယ္ သူတို႔ကိုၾကည့္ၿပီး စကားမေျပာ လႈပ္ေတာင္မလႈပ္ဘူး
- နင္ဘာျဖစ္ေနတာလဲ ဘာလို႔မေျပာရတာလဲ
သူဘာမွျပန္မေျပာဘူး ဒီလုိပဲၾကည့္ေနတယ္…
- ေျပာ ေျပာ နင္တစ္ခုခုေျပာပါ…
သူ႔မ်က္စိေထာင့္ကေန မ်က္ရည္က်လာတယ္ သူအရမ္းအားယူလိုက္ၿပီး
- sorry
သူေျပာၿပီးတာနဲ႔ သူမ်က္စိပိတ္သြားတယ္..
- ဘာလဲဟာ sorry လို႔မေျပာနဲ႔ ေျပာတာကိုလဲ လက္မခံႏိုင္ဘူး ထ ထ
ၾကားလား….. ငါနင့္ကို မခြင့္လြတ္ဘူး …… ထ……… နင္မထရင္ ငါနင့္ကို
ဒီတစ္သက္မခြင့္လြတ္ဘူး…. မ်က္စိဖြင့္ပါ…………..
ဒါဟာ သူ sorry ေျပာတာ ၁၀၀ ျပည့္သြားတယ္ …. ဆရာ၀န္နဲ႔ ေဘးကလူေတြ ကၽြန္မကို
၀ိုင္းဆြဲတယ္..
ကၽြန္မ မထႏိုင္ေတာ့ဘူး ဘာမွလည္းမသိေတာ့ဘူး အေမွာင္ကမာၻထဲေရာက္သြားသလုိ…..
သူဒီကမာၻကေနမထြက္ခြါေသးပါဘူး သူကိုအျပင္ေလာကမွာမေတြ႕ရတာ
ကၽြန္မအိပ္မက္ထဲသူလာတယ္
သူေဘးမွာအျမဲ႐ွိေနတယ္… ကၽြန္မရင္ထဲမွာ သူ႐ွင္ေနေသးတယ္…. ဒါေပမဲ့ sorry
လို႔
သူမေျပာေတာ့ဘူး
လအေတာ္ၾကာေတာ့ သူ႔အေမလာ႐ွာတယ္ ဘူးေလးတစ္ခုကိုေပးတယ္..
ဘူးထဲမွာ ဓါတ္ပံုေတြခ်ည္းပဲ အပံုေပါင္း ၁၀၀ အပံုတိုင္းရဲ့ေနာက္မွာ
စာေရးထားတယ္…
ကၽြန္မကိုစိတ္ဆိုးေအာင္လုပ္မိတဲ့ကိစၥေတြအားလံုးကို ….
ပထမအႀကိမ္ sorry - မိန္းမ ဒီေန႔ တမင္ေနာက္က်တာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး
ဘာဆင္ေျခေတြေပးရမွန္းလဲ မသိဘူး အျဖစ္မွန္ကိုလည္းမေျပာခ်င္ဘူး။
အိမ္ကထြက္မယ္ဆိုမွ ႐ုတ္တရက္ ႏွလံုးေအာင့္လာတယ္ ဒါေပမဲ့
အစြမ္းကုန္ႀကိဳးစားၿပီးလာခဲ့တယ္ ခြင့္လြတ္ပါေနာ္…
ဒုတိယ sorry - မိန္းမ ငါ…………
တတိယ sorry - …………….
……………………………..
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၁၀၀ sorry - မိန္းမ ငါမင္းကို ပစ္သြားတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး
မင္းကိုတစ္သက္လံုးခ်စ္ဖို႔
ဘုရားက ကိုယ္႕ ကိုအခြင့္အေရးမေပးဘူး ဒီလက္စြပ္ေလးကိုစြပ္ေစခ်င္တယ္..
မင္းဟာ ငါ
ပထမ sorry ေျပာတဲ့မိန္းကေလးပါ ထာ၀ရလက္တြဲဖို႔ ဆံုးျဖတ္ေစသူပါ ငါ
မင္းကိုေပ်ာ္႐ႊင္မႈေတြမေပးႏိုင္ေတာ့ဘူး ငါမင္းေဘးမွာ႐ွိေနမွာပါ
မင္းေပ်ာ္႐ႊင္ေနတာကိုၾကည့္ခ်င္တယ္ ကတိေပးပါ မငိုပါဘူးဆိုတာကို
မင္းမ်က္ရည္က်တာကို မခံစားႏိုင္လို႔ပါ…. သိပ္ခ်စ္တယ္…
ကၽြန္မ မငိုပဲ ဘယ္လိုေနႏိုင္ပါ့မလဲ………… ေနာက္ဆံုးဓါတ္ပံုကို
ေဆး႐ံုမွာ႐ိုက္ခဲ့တယ္… ၿပံဳးေနတဲ့အၿပံဳးေလးဟာ အရမ္းကိုေတာက္ပတယ္..
ဒါေပမဲ့
သိပ္ပိန္တယ္… မ်က္ႏွာကလည္း ျဖဴဖတ္ျဖဴေရာ္.. ဒါကို သူၿပံဳးႏိုင္တယ္ ဒီ
အပံု ၁၀၀
ေျမာက္ကို႐ိုက္ဖို႔အတြက္…
သူအရမ္းခံစားေနရတဲ့အခ်ိန္မွာ သူေဘးမွာမ႐ွိဘူး
Sorry ပါ….
သူ႔ဓါတ္ပံုေတြကို ေပြ႕ဖက္ၿပီး ကၽြန္မ အငိုမတိတ္ေတာ့ဘူး။
႐ွိသမွ်ခ်စ္သူေတြအားလံုးတစ္ဦးကိုတစ္ဦးခ်စ္ျမတ္ႏိုးႏိုင္ၾကပါေစ။
ဒီလုိအလြမ္းဇာတ္မ်ိဳးထပ္မျဖစ္ေစဖို႔ ဆုေတာင္းရင္း…………..
Thursday, August 20, 2009
For my beloved late Mum...
For my beloved late Mum...
Mom lived her life for love of friends and familyMy mother passed away on March 25thI loved her deeply; now she's simply gone.All my life I'd known that I was loved,Living in the circle of her arms.I can't believe her love is not somewhere,So strong it was, so much a part of me.I feel it in the harsh salt of the seaAnd in the stinging sadness of the wind.I ride the waves along the rock-strewn shore.No one watches me with fear and pride.Now among the stars I am alone.In her heart I had my only home.Mom lived her life for love of friends and family,Neither asking for nor wanting a return.Her days became a sunlit homily,With others' joy her joy and main concern.When we were ill, she also became sick;When we were cut, she, too, began to bleed.Of our oil lamp she was the wick,Drawing her bright flame from our need.Some say that such behavior's out of date:That self-fulfillment is the way to grace.But Mom, without much choice, then chose her fate,Finding greater truth in an embrace.She lives on in the sparkle in our eyes:Laughing, quiet, gentle, loving, wise.I miss you, but I cannot make you miss me.I need you, but you do not know my need.I want you, but I cannot make you kiss me.I suffer, but I cannot make you bleed.I beseech you, but you will not be beguiled.The door's locked, and you will not let me in.You're my mon, but I cannot be your child.I've lost you, and I can't take back my sin.Like an earth no longer with its sun,Shooting towards eternity alone,I no longer circle anyone,An aimless, mindless, wandering piece of stone.Ah, Mon! It would be so sad if weWould journey through to darkness separately.
Deeply missed and forever etched in my heart mum............ I love you!
By Gora
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